Don't Bug Dad CS

For parents

User guide

One app, two roles: on your phone you are the parent; on the child's phone it runs as the child and enforces the rules you set.

First run

  1. On your phone choose “I am a parent” and create an account with e-mail and password.
  2. Tap Add a child's phoneGenerate a code. The code lasts 10 minutes and can be shown as a QR too.
  3. On the child's phone choose “This is a child's phone” and type or scan the code.
  4. The app then walks you through the permissions on the child's phone. Each one has a job:
PermissionWithout it
Accessibility (monitoring)no app blocking — the heart of the app
Usage accessno time measuring, so no daily limit
Display over other appsno block screen
Location (allow always)no map and no saved places
Notificationsno warnings that the limit is running out

Done — the child appears on your dashboard within a minute, battery and monitoring state included.

Parent dashboard
Your dashboard: monitoring state, battery, last location

A second parent? In the ⋮ menu of a child, generate an invite — the other parent creates their own account and joins with the code. Unpairing a phone stays with whoever founded the family.

Where things are (the child's screen on the parent side)

TabWhat it holds
OverviewTime today and across the week, by hour and by app. Tapping a day opens the breakdown: what counted toward the limit, what did not, and why.
MessagesThe chat with the child. Messages delete themselves after 24 hours — it is an “I need you now” channel, not an archive.
LocationA map with the phone's last position (refreshes ~every 15 minutes; “Where is it” asks right now). Tap the map to save a place (Home, School…) — arrivals and departures then reach you as notifications.
AppsEvery app on the child's phone, in groups (Games, Social…). Each can be blocked / always allowed / capped per day; the same works for a whole group at once. Long-press moves an app between groups; a tap opens the app's Google Play page — handy for apps you don't recognise. Search at the top, and a “Phone settings” section with recommendations.
LimitsThe curfew (allowed hours), per-day exceptions, the overall daily limit and Happy hours.
LockLock right now (an hour, until morning, custom) or add time. Children's time requests are decided here too — along with what the child wrote you.
Overview tab
Overview: the week, today by hour and by app
Apps tab
Apps: groups and three buttons — block / always allow / cap
Lock tab
Lock: lock now, add time, unlock everything

How the daily limit works

Block screen after the limit ran out
The used-up limit as the child sees it: ask for time, message from Dad

Curfew

Allowed hours, e.g. 07:00–20:00 — outside them the apps are locked. Individual days can carry exceptions (later on Friday, unrestricted Sunday). Calls and the home screen always work; whether the curfew also closes “always allowed” apps is your choice with a switch.

Curfew settings in the Limits tab
Limits: the allowed hours and per-day exceptions

Happy hours

A daily window in which the phone works even with the limit used up and time counts toward nothing — a guaranteed slot (after homework, say) that a morning binge cannot eat. Blocked apps stay blocked and your lock still wins. Lives in Limits.

Happy hours settings
The daily limit with the Happy hours window below it

Messages

The child can write to you even from a blocked phone — straight from the block screen. You get a notification with the full text; your reply rings the child's phone and appears on the block screen too. Short messages up to 200 characters, deleted after 24 hours.

Chat on the child's phone
On the child's phone: “You and Dad”
Messages tab on the parent side
On yours: the Messages tab

Ringing the phone

When a child cannot find their phone — or when they are not answering — make it ring. The Location tab has a 🔔 button beside “Where is it”. The phone rings loudly even when it is set to silent (it goes out on the alarm channel, which the silent switch does not mute) and vibrates. The child stops it from the notification or in the app, it stops by itself after two minutes, and you can stop it remotely. Once it has rung you see a confirmation with the time — which is how you tell “it rang in the next room” from “the phone is switched off”.

Location & places

Location tab with the map
Location: last position, “Where is it” and saved places

What the child sees

The child's home screen during curfew
The child's home screen: Dad is asleep, curfew applies

Recommendations that keep the monitoring standing

  1. Block the Settings app (it is pinned at the top of the app list with an explanation). Without that, a resourceful child can reconfigure the phone. Quick toggles (wi-fi, volume, torch) remain theirs.
  2. Try the unlock code once (Lock tab) — it is your key for moments without internet, and worth a dry run while you are not in a hurry. There is nothing to set up or remember; the code is already there.
  3. On Samsung/Xiaomi and similar phones, allow the app to run unrestricted in the background — the app itself points you to the right screen when the manufacturer starts killing it.

Where the protection honestly ends: uninstalling and clearing the app's data both happen on one Settings screen, and the app keeps that screen shut even outside a lock — with Settings blocked, the ordinary route is closed. What's left are the extremes: Android's Safe Mode, which disables all third-party apps including this one, and a rooted phone. The app does not pretend otherwise — when monitoring stops working, your dashboard and a notification say so. The full list is on the home page.

Troubleshooting

SymptomWhat to do
“Monitoring inactive” on a childOpen the app on the child's phone → “Monitoring status and permissions” — it shows which permission dropped and restores it with one tap.
The child has not reported for a whileUsually a dead battery or night-time (quiet hours mute alarms). “Where is it” sends a wake-up signal.
No notifications reach youCheck the app may post notifications on your phone (Android 13+ asks on first run).
Blocking “let something through” right after bootFor ~30 seconds after a restart the system is still raising services; monitoring then catches up on its own.
Monitoring status screen with a missing permission
“Monitoring status” on the child's phone shows what dropped and restores it with one tap

Contact

Anything broken or missing: nezlobtatu@eadg.cz